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The relationship between you and your parents can change over time. The older you get the more it changes. As a child, your parents are you hero's, they provide you with everything you need in life, they hold your hand through tough times and pretty much do everything for you! From the day you're born to about age 12 you and your parents share a very close bond with each other. You do lots of activities and other things together, mostly because as a child you can't do much on your own that why your parents are there.

They are there to love you, help you when you need it and to show you the road to adulthood. Yes it is true that they guide you to adulthood but at a certain point in you teenage years you become more independent and start to branch off from your parents. You start thinking that you can do everything on your own without your parents help. You spend more time with your friends then you parents. Basically your relationship with your parents changes dramatically.

The parents are always shocked by this and always try to smother the child with love so that the child would come back to them but that usually doesn't work. It is not that the kids have stopped loving their parents but a whole new world has been opened to them and they are ready to explore it without the parents holding their hand and guiding them to where they need to be. Being a teenager is a new world and it brings more socializing then spending quality time with your parents.

Building a healthy relationship with your child is possible it isn't easy but it is possible. You need to have an understanding with you child. For them to be well behaved and respectful children you need to show them what they can and cannot do. Set boundaries. Life isn't fare and children can't always do the same thing as adults so you have to tell them what they can and cannot do. You have to set a punishment.

Tell them what your rules are and let them know that this will happen to you if you break the rules or don't listen to me. The final step is you have to enforce your rules. The child knows the rules and the consequences and now you have to put those into action. Those are some good tips for having a well behaved child grow up into a well behaved teenager. Teenagers do love their parents but it's just that the world is there to be explored and they don't want someone nagging them through it.

It make seem as if they are not close anymore but that's not the case, the case is the parents act as an anchor to the kid not allowing them to explore. They leave them in their sheltered lives and cut off the outside world from them. As the teenager gets older it gets even more different. For a short period they completely isolate themselves from their parents and go on with their social life. As they get even older they start to realize what they took for granted as kids is still there for them to enjoy a little while longer.

Their relationship opens up again and returns to the normal course it followed before. When the kid finally reaches the special point in their called adulthood that is when it is time to let go and let your child soar free and achieve their goals! You cannot hold on to them forever sooner or later they had to reach the point where they are fully independent. You should be proud that they have made it not sad that you and your child don't share the same bond as before. It is time to let go!

Over the years a child grows their relationship changes. Just like any relationship it has its ups were you and your parents are as close as ever, enjoying each other's company and the downs were you and your parents feel that you are from completely different worlds, thinking how can we ever be related we are so different. Overall a relationship can be hectic but it can also be an amazing journey, all you have to do is come along for the ride!

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